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It seems like they can’t stop complimenting your beauty.
At first, it may seem enticing, but nothing is more frustrating than being put on a pedestal by a partner. It’s impossible to console them whenever you defy their expectations by being a normal, flawed, breathing human being instead of a projection of some beautiful idea they have in their heads. Also, someone being so fascinated with you is TERRIBLE.
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Despite your best efforts, they “innocently” strain your physical limits.
Does your new boo tickle you even after you ask them to stop? Are they still touching you in seemingly benign ways (such as hugs, shoulder rubs, and even poking you in the arm like a sibling) after you ask for personal space? This could indicate that they do not respect your right to your own body and will try to push those boundaries to even greater dangers in the future.
IT IS TOO SOON TO ENTER INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP FOR THEM.
This person is either on the rebound, engaged in a very poisonous form of serial monogamy, or a malignant narcissist.It is their goal to create a schism between you and your family and friends.
If someone wants you all to themselves, you should probably avoid them at all costs.
It is common for them to roll their eyes at you.
The act of rolling eyes at one another is a common predictor of divorce among married couples, and why wouldn’t it be? A great relationship requires mutual respect, and you won’t respect someone you constantly roll your eyes at.
All of them describe their ex-partners as “crazy.”
It’s true that some relationships end so badly that we’re still bitter towards ex-partners over two years later—but if your current spouse spews hatred at all of their “crazy” previous loves, it’s clear that they are the problem.
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During heated debates, they call you names.
Fighting is inevitable, but be wary of anyone who seems to turn into an unrecognizable monster when they disagree, calling you insults that would make their mother wash her mouth out with soap. In either case, it is a sign of disrespect or poor dispute resolution abilities, which does not make for a happy partnership.
There is no work ethic in them.
A person’s mood counts more than their situation if they are falling behind on life milestones or don’t seem to have their shittogether on the surface. Have they fallen behind due to a major sacrifice or setback in their lives, or are they simply unmotivated (in which case, NEXT)? Ultimately, we all have unique schedules. If this individual is unhappy with their current situation, is he or she working hard every day to create a better one for themselves? It is entirely determined by one’s attitude that makes the difference.
Their parents are unkind to them.
Everyone has issues with their parents at times (show me a mature adult who blindly worships Mom and Dad and I’ll show you a liar), but keep an eye out for partners who don’t seem to respect their parents. If their parents aren’t They have every right to refuse to make nice with them if they desire.) What does it say about how they will treat others who grow close to them if they can bear to be cruel and ungrateful to those who literally gave them life?
